I think that I need to clear some things up before I proceed. Over the course of this series I may have used some terms that could be deemed as offensive towards our target audience. My use of words like fat, fatty, fat ass should be kept in context. I am certainly not trying to belittle or insult anyone. I use words like that as a term of endearment. I often refer to myself as a big fat ass, a fat bastard, and a magnificent bastard. When I use those terms to describe myself I am not doing it with malice but rather with cuteness.
I often call my wife a "Crazy Fucking Mexican". She is neither crazy nor a Mexican, at least as far as I know. I just love the way the words roll off my tongue. She often responds by calling me a gypsy because I tan quite easily. She also calls me a slob when she walks into the bathroom and steps into a puddle of my urine. For the longest time I couldn't figure out why I would rim the toilet when taking a piss but we recently figured it out. I attempt to sign my name every time I go piss. The cursive form of the letter "J" makes my stream go wide. Often I hit the edge of the toilet bowl and it ricochets off the side and onto the floor. I am not sure why this bothers her. Check it out, I took a mundane task like going to the bathroom and turned it into an adventure. Now every time she goes in the bathroom she has to nimbly dodge my little puddles. Sometimes she makes it and sometimes she has a wet sock when she is done. Hey women like surprises right?
It has also been brought to my attention that I might have offended some people when I listed what men and women find most attractive in the opposite sex. In regards to this I have to emphatically and positively say take your offense and shove it up your ass. No I am just kidding. No, but really, go fuck yourself. Why am I being so harsh? Because I did nothing wrong. I stated at the beginning of both entries that these were not my personal opinions. Nor were they the opinions of people I know. Everything I listed was based upon peer reviewed research. Even then I refused to list multiple things that I thought might be offensive to people. The only things I went into any details about were things that we have some sort of control over in a non-surgical manner.
I flat out said that one of the biggest factors in determining how attractive a woman would rate a man is the chest/shoulder to waist ratio. I also stated that I do not possess big broad shoulders naturally and that I easily carry fat around my waist. Part of this is out of my control, it is the structure that I was born with. The part in my control, eliminating body fat and developing the rear and side deltoids, are things that I actively work on to improve my physique. Sure I could dwell on having not been dealt the best genetics but that will get me no where. Instead I work my ass off to be the best version of me that I can be.
If anything I said hurt your feelings, instead of being angry at me do something about it. No I am not saying kick my ass. Lord knows I don't want a bunch of fat women out to get me. What I mean is, make a real effort to change the things about you that you don't like. I am not saying you have to change anything though. There are people who have all different tastes. Some people like pizza and others burritos. Some people love both! I know some men who love women that are rail thin and look like preteen boys. I know other men who love women who are quite a bit overweight. Some men I know love everything in between.
If you are overweight, happy with yourself, and content with your body image then by all means I am happy for you. I really mean that. It is not for anyone else to decide how you should look. While there are health concerns with being grossly overweight, there are plenty of average sized people who have health issues as well. But if you suffer from depression, lack of confidence, and/or low self esteem because of your physique then you damn sure better get off your butt and do something about it. If you are unsure what to do then drop us an email. We offer plenty of advice for free. We also offer the best prices you will find on in depth personal training, along with a private training facility for you to train at to help meet your goals.
My business partner, my wife Missy, will soon be writing articles on this blog as well to add a woman's perspective. She has helped me build this business from the ground up. At the present time we are still at the tiniest little seedling stage but have already accomplished so much. She remains my voice of reason, keeping my crazier ideas at bay. Luckily for me she is a very tolerant person.
Seriously I am really fucking lucky she is forgiving. I remember one time my balls were really sweaty. As a young man I never had to deal with that issue. My wife loves to remind me that I am not a spring chicken anymore. I can shower in the morning but give me 9 hours of working outside and my balls get a nice musky funk going on. Anyways, this time I am thinking about my balls were really sweaty and moist. My first thing was to slyly work a hand down there and do a quick finger swipe of the region. When I knew she wasn't looking I then did a sniff check on the finger. This step is very important. There is no sense is wiping down the balls if that musky smell is too overwhelming. At that point you simply have no choice but to take a shower.
Luckily this time my ball odor was in check. Just a slight hint of musk along with a tiny aroma of some hickory farms smoked sausage. Not too bad. So at this point I knew I didn't have to hit the shower quite yet. So I figured I would just do a good wipe down. I went to the kitchen to grab a wad of paper towels and it turned out Missy was in there getting a drink of juice. I grabbed the paper towels and took 'the stance'. Legs out wide and crouched down a bit. Imagine if you will, riding an imaginary horse. I then dropped my shorts enough to release the goods. With my right hand full of paper towels I went down there and began swiping up and down. This wasn't a subtle movement mind you. Rather I was jerking my entire upper body up and down as I got an intense wipe/scratch. As my balls flopped back and forth Missy blurted out "Honey!!" with a shocked look on her face. To be honest I was so in the zone I didn't even fucking hear her. I just kept on furiously wiping up and down like a man possessed. Then she screamed out "HONEY!!!!!!"
Finally it dawned on me what I was doing. In the middle of her kitchen I was flopping my balls all over the place. Why on Earth this seemed like an okay thing for me to do I will never know. Seriously what kind of fucking thought process could lead me to such an action. She probably should of ran for the hills at that point. Mind you this was before she married me. So she is that much of a kind and forgiving person that she overlooked that incident and still said I do.
So I am very much looking forward to adding her content to this blog. She has made fantastic progress in her training in the last year and a half. She is kind of like Darth Vader. She was but the learner but now she is the master. She keeps pace with me and has slogged through all of these insane training sessions we do day in and day out. Along the way she has picked up so much knowledge and expertise that I know will shine through in her articles.
Thankfully she is sleeping right now because I just ripped some nasty ass. I hope it dissipates soon but I am worried it might linger around. like that uncle who stays later than everyone else at a family gathering. If you want to be a powerlifter or bodybuilder than you will need to learn how to rip some stealth ass. The high protein diet we consume means it can be rather foul so you have to learn how to manage it properly. I prefer to hold back until we are in a public place like a grocery store and then let loose. That way I can blame it on other people and even act very offended that they would do such a thing. Just be forewarned that that tactic can sometimes bite you in the ass (pun intended). If it is a lingerer then eventually your significant other will catch on that the smell is following you guys.
Well I think I am going to wrap up this entry. Next entry I am going to focus on specific exercises for women to improve their all too important waist to hip ratio.
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